When you back people into a corner for decades they get skiddish. But they also get a little aggressive trying to get back out of it. I, for one, have NO problem talking about race as I am perfectly comfortable in my white skin. Political correctness has not caused me to believe all speech that is not in line with mine is vitriol. If people of any color are upset with what they hear perhaps they need to listen closer to what they are saying themselves. Every one wants equal rights for themselves but not for every one else. This stops now. Freedom of speech is not freedom from it and being white does not make you guilty of a dang thing. (Unless you actually did it) There is no secret here. Women are too busy to die early. We have stuff to do. And we tend to notice little things before they get out of control.